LISTENING YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS Mind and Voice in Development of Self

There are various norms laid by the society, which guides the way we react towards different things in our everyday life. Each one of us has certain desires, some of which are accepted by the society and some are not. There are certain desires that can be easily expressed which constitute our conscious mind. But, the desires that do not find an outlet due to the restraints of the society become ‘repressed desires’ which get stored in our subconscious mind.

However, we are completely aware of the thoughts in our conscious mind but the subconscious mind remains hidden from us. Our past experiences and tendencies in the subconscious mind contribute to the way we react towards different situations. The outcome of these tendencies plays a very crucial role in shaping our character. The free will by which we make choices reflects our character, which is formed by our thoughts, past deeds and feelings. Thus, for self-development our mind should be free from all negative thoughts.

The solution to the problem lies in replacing these impure thoughts with pure thoughts of spirituality, divinity, god and qualities, such as compassion, love, altruism, kindness, sympathy and concern for others. Though it may take some time in the cleaning of our mind from such thoughts but perseverance and patience are the keys to get through it. At this time, one may also feel depressed and dejected and this is where spiritual thoughts come to aid to help you overcome it. Also, practices like yoga, meditation, devotion and charity work gives the tranquility of mind.

Self-development involves assessment of our internal vices, strengths, talents and weaknesses. It helps an individual to improve the skills, behavior, and perspective towards various situations of life. This in turn contributes in improving overall personality of an individual. All such practices give an optimistic attitude towards life and gives inner power to tackle the most difficult problems with the greatest ease. This ensures a progress not only in one’s personal but also professional life. By adding on to the virtues and subtracting the vices, it guides an individual to achieve goals with determination and strong will power. It broadens the horizons of an individual, gives him the strength of mind, and takes actions for self-development. It incorporates leadership qualities in an individual.

Self-direction is another factor that is a part of self-development. This is the ability to guide and plan one’s own behavior. This is generally active during the tender years of one’s life but loses its gravity in the years of growth. Practicing self-direction emphasize on giving your actions a brief thought before acting.

Listening to your mind also works as an important tool in the development of the self. Our inner voice often criticizes us, appreciates us, encourages us in the way we lead our life. This inner voice plays an important role in giving us the confidence that we need in our daily deeds. A criticism of our inner voice makes us doubt on our own strengths and belittles us, whereas an appreciation of the same may make us achieve goals that we could never think of. This inner voice is nothing but the voice of our conscious. Whatever we believe is under the guidance and beliefs of this voice. Once we have made an opinion, it is really difficult to change it especially if we are unaware of it. Hence, regulating one’s inner self is important to live a stress free and contented life. So, seeking the shelter of God, listening to the inner voice and selfless activities can help the individual in a successful development.